Showing posts with label Natalie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Natalie. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Finally!

I'm finally, at this moment, caught up on the bios.  I'm sure that there is someone writing another one right now, though LOL

Where did all these Cushies and potential Cushies come from?  This is supposed to be a rare disease.

It's good that the word is getting out, though.  Thankfully, people don't have to suffer with this alone anymore.

Between the jobs that have to be done on this site - and there are lots of invisible ones that members never see! , temporarily watching a friend's message boards, my "real" job, trying to have a life... I am more exhausted than I can remember being for a long time.

Housework is a thing of the far-distant past.

A few weeks ago I went to a handbell festival.  I took a bit of adrafinil on the main day to try to stay awake for the whole day.  It didn't seem to keep me as on as it did before.  I can't be used to it already.  Maybe I'm just that much more tired than I was just a few months ago.

I guess I'm a bit introspective today, too.  It's the first anniversary of Natalie's death.  Last month was the anniversary of Sue's death.

It's just not right that this disease has been known for so many years, yet doctors still drag their feet diagnosing it and curing Cushing's.

Why is it that we have to suffer so much, so long, and still there are so many deaths from Cushing's or related to Cushing's symptoms?

I know far too many people, good people, who suffered for many years from this disease that doctors said they didn't have.  Then they died.  It's time this stopped!

Speaking of death - what a cheery blog post this is turning out to be.  NOT!

I had been following the blog posts of a young woman who had "my" cancer".  She recently died.  I never knew her but she sounded like such a wonderful person who truly lived while she had the chance.

I wish I could be more like that and have a real life while I'm still here.  My life seems to be reduced to doing for others. 

 

When is it my turn?

Saturday, November 22, 2008

From last Spring: A repost...

I was talking online today with an old friend and Natalie's name came up.  It is so heart-wrenching when another Cushie dies :(

I still hate Cushing's.  It has taken away some of my best friends.

I am sitting here crying...I couldn't believe that our friend, Natalie Fay (Natalie65), died yesterday. She was only 42 and had recently had a BLA. I first met Natalie at a local lunch in November of 2001 and have seen her several times since then.

Natalie started the original "Dammit Dolls" that circulated around the country until people refused to pass them along anymore.

Dammit Doll.
Natalie also made counted cross-stitch Cushing's Awareness Pins:

Natalie's bio... http://www.cushings-help.com/natalies_story.htm

From 2001

From left: Joe (Natalie's husband), Natalie and Linda


Some recent past posts.

February 10, 2008
going to UVA I am going for my first visit with Dr. Hanks at UVA on the 20th. I will also see Dr. Vance that day. I haven't seen her before either. I am planning on having bilateral adrenal surgery in March. I am a little nervous about this, but it is going to be a positive thing I hope. I would love to hear from anyone who has had this done so that I will have an idea of what to expect. after surgery.
Thanks! Natalie

March 18, 2008
surgery update Hey everyone!
I'm back! It has been a very slow week and I'm just satrting to feel like moving around again. I had BLA on the 10th and came home on friday. My parents have taken my boys (3 & 6) home to Va. I have missed them so much this week, but I think it was the right thing to do. I don't know how I would have done it without them. I am still very sore and tired at times, but I'm coming along. Sorry this has taken so long to get out to you guys, I thought things were taken care of but I was wrong. Oh Well! I'm doing good and I'll keep in touch. Thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers.
Natalie

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pit surgery 1990
traditional 30 days radiation 1990
pit surgery 1995
sterotactic radiation surgery 1995
2004 still have remaining tumor
cortisol levels still off balance
BLA March 10, 2008

Funeral Services will be at Wright Funeral Home in Franklin, VA at 2pm on Friday the 25th. Graveside services will follow at Riverside Cemetary, Courtland, VA. Family visitation will be held Thursday the 24th at the residence of Edward and Nan Grissom, 16046 Wakefield Road, Courtland, VA from 7pm to 9pm.


In lieu of flowers, donations will be accepted to Cushing's Help - Mary O'Connor, 4094 Majestic Lane #328, Fairfax, VA 22033.


Thank you for all your prayers.
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I HATE CUSHING'S!!!